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[Junket]

but guys, what if her mom is mentally challenged, which i am sure she is. she did have a hard life after all. do we kick our closest ones out as soon as they go insane? what if Jennifer becomes the same way when she reaches 40, does her offspring get rid of her as soon as she becomes a nuisance?

Indig is like the new Eco.

[Indignant]

i'll take it as a compliment, fras

[Lite]

Wow, that sucks Aer. I'd file charges against my mother/family members if they did that to me. This isn't just them screwing their lives up, this is her making a decision to **** you over when you're already down.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I think if Indig's mom attempted to murder her she would forgive her because she is her mom and keep her in her life.

I am terribly sorry for what you are going through at the moment Aeradalia. I dont think I could have stuck to my mother as long as you have. Once I am unwanted, I go the other way. Something is definitely wrong with her, but I dont think she is mental per se. She didnt have a good life either but that does not make it right for her to act the way she is acting now, especially for someone who is doing so much for her. She is being very selfish and ungrateful and she's a plain out bitch.

I wish you the best with what you do and I hope you get yourself settled. Keep us updated if possible.

And btw, cut the emo shit. You know we love you .

[Junket]

i'll take it as a compliment, fras

Yeah, but are you up for the challenge?

Eco was my nemesis.

[Sonrisa]

weren't you mine from day one?

[Junket]

weren't you mine from day one?

Not necessarily.

I give a lot of the new, outspoken posters a hard time initially.

[Sonrisa]

great personality trait, Fras.

[Junket]

great personality trait, Fras.

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, but regardless, I believe it is.

That's how a lot of males work.

It's a respect thing.

If they can take the shit they'll gain respect.

You couldn't take much of anything when you first started posting.

Hell you couldn't even take the shit when it wasn't even directed to you. (Indie). At that point I just put you in the "idiot" category. But you've come around.

Still irritate the hell out of me, though.

[Sonrisa]

ha ha ha, once again cultural differences, nothing else.

[Junket]

I don't see that as a cultural difference as much as I see it as a gender difference. I'm sure if I were to go wherever your family is from, and interact with your family, that they'd have their own way of testing me.

Some people use words/banter.

Others put your physical ability to the test through sports or work.

Or others will offer you coffee or alcohol and see what your reaction is.

[Sonrisa]

how about not testing anyone and just accepting people as they are?

[Aeradalia]

how about not testing anyone and just accepting people as they are?

That goes along with "Can't we all just get along?"

[Aeradalia]

Little bit of an update:

I talked with the manager... told her the lease contract was a forgery... her and I both know it. If she didn't destroy it I would have the courts go so far up her ass she'd think she was having a root canal. After her initial huffiness... the reality of the situation started to sink in, and she tore up the contract in front of me.

I found my debit card, social security card, and the car title in my mom's purse... they're now stored away in a nook in the trunk of the car. So she won't be able to find them nearly so easily.

For added measure... I called the City Code Enforcement asking some questions about what is acceptable for an apartment complex and what is not... they should be calling me back sometime today or tomorrow. I told them the name of the apartments and they seemed very interested.

I'll finish painting two apartments tonight (I laid the drop cloth and taped the edges this morning)... Need to change my clothes (wearing something nice just makes you feel more confident) and go pick up/drop off some more applications. I have one street covered.. have a few more to go.

If I have time... I might spray off the car real quick (been wanting to clean the engine a bit more thoroughly)... and pick up some wormer for the cat (poor guy's gotten sick without me realizing it).

Still no word yet about potential roommates... but I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

[Gigabitch]

I've went through every excuse I could think of over the years to explain her behavior towards me.

I had this too, though not quite as extremely as your case. My therapist told me it's quite common for a dysfunctional person to loathe their same-sex child while adoring their opposite-sex child. She really hates herself, not you.

I found my debit card, social security card, and the car title in my mom's purse... they're now stored away in a nook in the trunk of the car. So she won't be able to find them nearly so easily.

I hope you take that one step farther and get a safety deposit box or something. Better yet, mail that stuff to your dad.