Would you continue dating a woman if she still lives with her soon to be ex husband? The reason why they're still living together is because they cant sell the house and neither one of them can afford to pay the mortgage and rent on an apartment. She says she's trying extremely hard to sell the house but its clear to me that her ex doesn't want to get rid of it. He's gone as far as tell her that he will no longer make any repairs to the house, if anything breaks it's up to her to fix them.
She's already filed for a divorce which she told me was supposed to be final on April 22 but because they never went to court the clerk told her that it could take an additional 14 days.
At least 4 nights a week she spends the night and would spend more if I let her so her. We went to the zoo the other day and one of her ex husbands best friends saw us and according to her called him the following day and asked him if he knew his wife was with another man at the zoo. He said that they were in the process of getting a divorce and he knew all about me.
I have been through more crap with this woman and have ended the relationship more times that I can count but I no sooner break up with her and within 3 days she calls me back and literally begs me not to leave her and like an idiot I say ok and we try to work things out.