Originally Posted by
sarah_rsl
I'm always sceptical when guys (and it usually is guys) give long detailed descriptions of how to have sex claiming there are no health reprecussions.The Medical community are undecided on the health affects of anal sex so how the **** do all these guys have the answers?.
Uhm, it's a muscle, and just like the vagina it can stretch and tighten back up. No, you will not need to wear a diaper for the rest of your life if you do it "too much".
As for how long people have been engaging in anal sex. It's been far longer than the current puritanical version of homophobia. Romans did it, Sadists did it.
As for medical repercussions. You do have to be careful. You can cause serious damage if you're not. You can tear the intestinal wall for one. It is more likely to transmit diseases. Thus why you should wear a condom even during anal if it is a concern.
I know women who have been doing anal sex for over 20 years with no health issues, no trips to the hospital, they wear no diapers. They're just fine, and it's something they enjoy.
As for "gross" it depends upon the person's diet, how recently they've evacuated their bowels. You can use enemas, you can do it in the shower, you can wash your ass before attempting it. It's no more gross than having sex with a woman while she's having her period.
It isn't for everyone, but if done properly it's quite safe. My general knowledge of sex acts and safety very likely far exceeds yours. I know how to flog, whip, spank, choke, and tie a person up (Shibari) in a safe manner. I clean all toys before and after use, including washing my rope.
I'm not telling anyone they *should* do it. Just that if they are interested in doing it, they should research it and do it safely and carefully. It doesn't matter if you're a guy or girl.
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