hi,
I know this girl for a very long time by now (I think 4 years)
But now I have some feelings for her... i'm falling for her.
The Last few weeks we've sent messages to each other very much. (This started when my (ex)girlfriend broke up with me...)
We have been to the movies together a week ago, but nothing happened. (I'm scared she did it because we are JUST friends)
Now my question is: How can I know if she just want to be friends, or something more? What can I do?
But I don't want to lose her as a friend!! How can i do it more subtle?
(But there is still one thing; my ex is a good friend of her)
(I hope you understand my problem, and I'm sorry for my english)
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07-05-09, 01:14 AM #1
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little problem, to shy
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If you can't ask her or take a risk then don't bother trying to figure out whether she wants more. She doesn't give you the urge to take a risk. A man that wants something will go after it even when shy.
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
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07-05-09, 06:56 AM #3
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But just ask? that's so childish... no?
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07-05-09, 07:57 AM #4
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Tell me how is asking childish? How old are you?
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
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07-05-09, 02:05 PM #5
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20... i don't know, i haven't got much experience in this sort of things...
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07-05-09, 03:23 PM #6
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Flirt. Confidence is sexy.
Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
-Lily Tomlin
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07-05-09, 08:56 PM #7
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If you want to know how she feels by just interpreting through her actions and response, this might give you a false impression or she can even deny her feelings and say, that's a normal thing for her to do.
Hang-out with her, spend more time than usual... have fun. Then slowly make her feel that you're seeing her more than a friend. Lastly, ASK her if she also feels the same way as you do - so you can take a step to the next level. That's the only way to find out, for sho.. unless if she makes the first move.
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07-05-09, 10:21 PM #8
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thx everyone for the advice
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07-05-09, 10:26 PM #9
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lesa says:
"If you can't ask her or take a risk then don't bother trying to figure out whether she wants more. She doesn't give you the urge to take a risk. A man that wants something will go after it even when shy."
I'm quoting this post for the OP to read again. If you are too afraid to make a move, then you don't deserve the girl.
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