Originally Posted by
Cbrider
Its not going to make sense right now because you're completely clouded out by being emotionally charged about this whole thing.
Why would you EVER want to get back with a guy who:
1.) Can jump into a relationship faster than I can change my socks.
2.) Breaks up with you through a text message.....
I mean really, what caliber of man are you willing to settle for?
You can do better, this guy is not deserving of your love, even if you are as possessive and obsessed with this guy. It sounds like he is not good for you. You need a man who cares for you. WHO CARES. Be patient and you will eventually get over this guy. Let him go be with whomever the hell he wants. It is his life. You focus on your life, work out, work out on your issues, be more confident and you will meet other men. Promised.
Originally Posted by
Keepnitreal
Drift Queen, just because he broke it off with you and went out with someone else doesn't mean that you have no chance of getting him back. Don't be needy and bug him. Give him some space and step back and take a look at yourself.See how you can self improve and become more desirable to him!
Remember the "If you love some one set them free" quote. He can always realize that he was also wrong and could always come back.
It has been a year this months since I broke it off with my ex. Guess what? I still love her, I know she is dating someone, not surprised, she has a pattern of not being alone for too long. That is ok, it is her life. She can decide how to live it. It does not mean I no longer love her because that would be betraying my true feelings.
I have dated too, and it is great to get the attention from a new girl, in spite of knowing that It could be a long time before I find the one again. You always do.
Go on a date, ask a guy out to a movie, but don't drink any alcohol, and take off your panties just yet, be grateful of the attention. thank him for the date and see how you feel. It will feel good.
Join a gym, work out, that always does wonders for your self esteem. Go volunteer....there are many things you could be doing right now to get distracted.
"Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." Nietzsche
There are two dilemmas... that rattle the human skull. How do you hold onto someone who won't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?