is she different or just me?

[hubcap22000]

my girlfriend says oral doesnt make her hot it relaxs her ,to the point of sleeping,she also doesnt like her clit touched at all while fingering her says it hurts no matter how light.she hates doggy,and hardly ever does it, says it hurts.

[Rollerderby]

maybe she has a really sensitive clit? Guys who aren't circumsized say they enjoy sex more, but usually have trouble with oral because it gets too sensitive after a while.

people like what they like.

or maybe you're just too hard, and don't really know what "light" means.

[NeoSeminole]

she's broken. Find a new girl.

[Petit Papillon]

No she's not broken... And You don't have to leave her...

So first: The clit.
I'm sure she feels it hurts because You don't make it enough wet. When You're using Your fingers take from time to time her "juice" ,don't let the clit get dry.So it won't hurt her anymore. If she's not enough wet,try to use Your saliva -voila

Second: The doggy style.
It can hurt her because penis goes deep in ,in this position. Try to not put Your whole penis and just push it softer.There shouldn't be a problem anymore.

Third: The oral thing
It's all about talking it over. Try to make circles,lick up and down,on the sides and ask her what does she likes the most. And of course it's not that she gets orgasm after 5 minutes... Sometimes it can take even 30 minutes. I for example get quick deconcentrate,by the noise outside the window,music or other things.Try it once twice,I'm sure she gets orgasm finally. Just be patient.

Sex is not a thing which goes perfect from the very beginning. Sometimes You have to try and try and try.Remember practice makes perfect

Good luck!

[Lite]

Many women do not like direct stimulation of the clitoris until they are fully aroused. <--- Please read this, re-read this, and then read it again for good measure.

It's her body, if she doesn't like the sensation then she doesn't like it. It doesn't make her broken, or strange, or anything else. It's just what she feels she enjoys or does not enjoy.

"Doggy-Style" is a deep penetration position for one. So if you're rough and are bumping up against her cervix, she isn't going to like it. Also, some women don't like it because they feel the position is less intimate and possibly even degrading. There is really no way for meaningful eye contact to occur in that position.

As for Oral relaxing her, well good luck with that one. Maybe if she gets relaxed enough you can try for the suprise buttsecks!! (No, not really.)

[Justplaying5050]

she's broken. Find a new girl.

Lol i found this funny, hes obviously wrong but still funny.

[glow]

just different preferences. nothing wrong with either of you its just everyone is different in bed

[Favrum]

I used to be like this when i was younger for some reason. Now i don't mind too much.

I got a great tip from a gay friend who suggested rubbing the clitoris indirectly by pushing the labia onto it.. gentle, indirect, soft and moist...