What is you take on this 1st date? Internet dating.

[lesa]

I think you are doing well. My guess is some men make the mistake of having the first or second date and then going into a phone session with her...meaning he calls her often just to chat. Some women can quickly lose interests in a man that does that. I'm no professional to dating either. I can only use my imagination. I would rather talk to him during the dates that he sets up than for him to have one or two official dates with me and then starts texting and phoning me.

I guess dates can make some of us women “dream”. Phone chats doesn’t give that much excitement. Too much of it (at the beginning) may not be good, in my opinion.

Good Luck.

[FoxyLaydee]

I'm glad you took some of the ladies' advice.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

[Darren]

Huh...

I don't get it.

24 hours later and she never replied to my IM.

???

Some class. No "no thanks" or anything. However, this does happen when dating online. It is very easy for the other person to just hit the delete key.

Perhaps she is busy. I don't get it. What do you think I should do next?

Think I should call her tomorrow?

[Darren]

48 hours and no reply. Next! lol

Looking back over the past week, I realize that despite her hot looks she seemed too unstable for any kind of relationship. There is more to it than what I posted here but I thought I'd give it a shot, however, her low self esteem was too low for any kind of dating.

I asked her in an IM when was the last guy she dated and I was told it was in last August when she walked away from her wedding 10 days before it happened.

Her soon-to-be husband was doing drugs (coke) and she couldn't take it any more.

Because of her manic disposition I think that ilk is what she is most suited for and I will let it be.

Thanks, guys for the advise.