Is commitment a total drag?

[doppelgaenger]

And Mish, I know it's not a man/woman thing per se. It's just that when I see a random hot guy walking down the street, I don't get those same urges. I'll make a note of his good looks in an observational way, but that's about it.

You're not alone There are lot's of people who feel that way when they are in love.

[IndiReloaded]

Also I should point out, men's attitude to this sort of thing changes incredibly with age. I would completely disregard the views of men in their 20s for example.

'Sex and fun' transitions to 'family & companionship'.

And *yes* you can still have it all, of course, but the ratios tend to shift with age, definitely.

[Junket]

Also I should point out, men's attitude to this sort of thing changes incredibly with age. I would completely disregard the views of men in their 20s for example.

Yeah, my input isn't as relevant considering you're both older.

I would guess your b/f has already had his share of experiences already, while I'm just at the start of mine.

I may be an insatiable hornball, but it's more mental than physical.

I could have just had the most amazing sex with my girlfriend and have no interest in sex after I orgasm.

15 minutes later out about the town and I'll come across some stunning girl and get the same urge as I described in my first post.

I wonder if sexual aggression is inherited. My dad was such a player. And I know my mom was a sex fiend based of the things I found in her room (and were delivered in the mail).

[Cbrider]

There's more to sex than just purely the act of. Like Mish said, I'm also single, but i keep my pecker in my pants for the most part. The emotional connection with someone you love means far, far more to me.

[Illusional]

you should just start a poll ask ask how many people, when given the perfect opportunity, would cheat on their lover.

shit, i know i would.

raverboy