I finally went out with her....as friends?

[Yggdrasil]

No! I hate it! She has said we are friends but acts different. I just feel like I am afraid of rejection and humiliation. I wish there was a way to hint at it and ask her without her knowing

Asking someone to go steady or to date, is overcomming the fear of rejection. The chances are always 50/50 and you never know till you ask.

Part of maturing (growing up), is overcomming those fears and learning to cope with them in healthy ways.

The ball is in your camp. It's your call.

[JarOPennies]

OK, so I began to talk to her. And we are going to hang out tomorrow. She is seeing her X today. As of now I am acting like a friend to play things cool, so I said. "You like him, don't you". She said "No, I just missed him alot". We talked a bit more and she just stopped. If someone liked you, they would probably wanna talk to you all day long. This is not the case.

[JarOPennies]

Aaaand, I made her cry today. She texted me at lunch. "Hey, buy me lunch pos?" I said "Maybe, but are we still hanging out today?". She said "No, can't. Going to NJ. Meet me in room (number), ok?". I walked up MAD. I came in the door with a straight face as she smiled happily. She handed me the money and I siad "No, you're coming down with me". She attempted to give me sad faces, so I kept saying "come on lets go". I said "I'm sick of this". As I tried to chill out. (I never yell). So she said "What?". I responded "Everyday. You only text me to get money from me or get me to do something for you. Yea, I love hanging out with you but anytime I thing we get close you get a new guy friend and just completely blow me off! It's happened numerous times. Tell me, why can't you hang out today. What came up that made you feel like you needed to blow me off again? "I'm sorry but I'm hanging out with kyle...." Once again you lie to me so you can hang out with _______. He treats you like you are a whore. You ditched a kid a WEEK before the prom for him, and he goes out of his way to cancel on you and goes with another girl. I am your ONLY friend that treats you like a real person, yet you treat me the worst out of all you're friends. All of the kids that blow you off, you somehow love. They don't give a shit about you. I'm the only one that actually cares for your feeling but you still continue to use me! It's been 5 months too long. Now I see why you're Ex bitched out on you. You treated him almost as bad as you treat me! I stuck with you. He ditched you and left you after you took him forgranted and used him. I'm done. Maybe talk to me when you mature and actually give a shit about people.


can anyone say get owned?