Need some help.

[omgitsjordan]

There is this girl that I find very attractive and has an awesome personality. One problem tho. The person she was last dating passed away about 6 months ago. I have known her for a couple of years. But we stop talk until about a week ago. I understand she is still grieving and such. But I was wondering if I should show interest in her or just wait it out and see what happens. Should I just take it slow and if something comes up between us or what. Also she is only 18 almost 19 in a couple of day and I will be turning 20 couple of days after her, if that means anything. IDK I'm very confused about it. It seems like a very touchy situation.

Thanks,
Jordan

[Yggdrasil]

In my opinion you should give her time to grieve and be supportive. Be a friend, not a lover.

The respectfull thing to do is not to take advantage of her.

That's of course just my opinion.

[omgitsjordan]

In my opinion you should give her time to grieve and be supportive. Be a friend, not a lover.

The respectfull thing to do is not to take advantage of her.

That's of course just my opinion.

Thanks. Thats what I was think too. But I wanted a seconded opinion and I dont have anyone to go to soo I came here.

And I would never take advantage of her. She is way to awesome to do that to her.

[Rollerderby]

If you become someone that she can lean on it will lead to a better relationship in the end anyway. But only if you really care about her like Yggradsil said.

[omgitsjordan]

Yeah I really care about her. I just dont want it to be weird ya know?