Well, I'm dating this guy (unofficially - were still getting to know each other) I'm 16 he's 19. Everything was going great, he probably still thinks it is, but I have my own personal problems getting in the way.
You see, I've never been in a relationship before, and he knows that, I had never kissed a guy, he knows that too.. But I have now, because we kissed a few days ago. In other words, im totally inexperienced.
We talk everyday on MSN but I feel like I'm trying too much because I'm the only one who always rings him. He keeps saying "I'll ring you later", "I'll call you tonight", "I'll call you from my friends phone later on today", etc.. He's said that around 8 times now, and yet.. no phone call? It's always me ringing, or else nothing happens. The other day I said "Why do you always say you're going to ring, and then you never do?" and he replied "I forget ".. Whatever thats supposed to mean..
However, on MSN he always talks first, he calls me 'baby, boo, hunny, darling, beautiful, etc..' but I dont really feel comfortable with calling him any of those words back just yet, because we're not official.
We live about 1hour away from each other by train, I'm based in North West London and he's from South East. We've met up around 4 times, but he has always come to my area.. So I know he does like me, if he's willing to come all the way to my area to see me rather than meeting half way.
But I can't tell if he cares? I don't really want to drag this on if nothing is going to happen as I have my own personal family problems that I'm dealing with aswell.
So what d'you guys think? It's only the phone call thing thats bugging me, he's saying he's going to do something but then he never does it, and I've just let it go 8 times. I would like to tell him, but I don't want to overreact about it because we are only dating, if we do become official, then I know for sure I won't stand for it.