This guy is living the life. He found a loophole how to stay married and have lots of sex as well. So what if it takes a bit of acting.
This guy is living the life. He found a loophole how to stay married and have lots of sex as well. So what if it takes a bit of acting.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
Yeah, I kinda admire him actually.
**** that.
even being with someone who's married, i wouldn't do it no matter how much i liked the person.
Yes. He just needs to make the choice to do so. Custody will definitely be a sticky issue, though.
I understand. But, lots of people with kids get divorced. I think eventually the situation would work out with the custody issue. One kid is 10 years old and the other is 8 months. So, I'm sure the 10-year-old can see what goes on at home. She's seen her parents seperate and get back together 3 times already. I just don't know. This is a horrible situation.
So you've made a decision to be the woman he's now with in a few years time "if everything works out well" then?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
I'm beginning to think most people have kids just to keep their partner closer to them.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
...owl eyes
It is horrible. And yes, people w/kids get divorced. But his order of operations is out of whack. He should divorce and get custody sorted out *before* having an affair. Which wouldn't be an affair then, of course.
You need to step away from all this. Do you really want to have contributed to a failed marriage in any way? If you carry on, you are responsible, no buts about it. This karma will come back to bite you, it always does.
Good luck. See if you can't screw up the courage to do what's right. No guy is worth losing your self-respect and morals for.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
you're fuked.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.