Couldn't orgasm (im a guy)

[rabuifoi]

thanks problem solved

[Peter Pry]

If you are male, 18, and unable to reach orgasm with a partner, then you should probably see a doctor. Even if you were nervous as hell, an 18 year-old should be having orgasms, and it shouldn't take anything near 3 hours, or all night. Inorgasmia at a young age could be nothing, or it could be something serious. Get it checked.

Do you masturbate prone (i.e. by grinding face down against the mattress)? There is some evidence that prone masturbation can reduce capacity for orgasm.

And if I may be permitted to butt in with a comment on your other issues, it is not your job to watch out for her borefriend. That's her job and her decision to make. Perhaps she prefers you; why would you cut off that possibility of happiness for both of you? If you want her, take her. Life is short. A year from now, you'll regret losing her through overniceness.

[vashti]

It could be anxiety. Are you able to orgasm through masturbation?

[Yggdrasil]

*Important stuff here*
blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah blah blah.

Yeah, that must be really important stuff.

Are you able to reach an orgasm when you mastrubate?

If not, go see a doctor. If yes, your consiousness probably was biting you in the ass for having sex with someone who's otherwise engaged and then it's a mental problem.

[rabuifoi]

hey guys thanks for replies

Sorry i don't have much time so i have to make this reply short.

During the 2 nights I guess I convinced myself that it was alright but afterward i realized the entirety of the situation and probably deep down i didn't want to orgasm because she has told me that her boyfriend has never made her orgasm. I guess part of me just didn't want to be just an outlet for sexual tension.

She was telling me how "emotionally fulfilling" and how much "she felt comfortable with no guilt." I guess in the end, the guilt of hurting her boyfriend is too much for me. (im not close with her boyfriend) I know if her boyfriend finds out, it will hurt my friend a lot as well.

I can reach orgasm easily during masturbation, with the times varying depending on my mood. Longest i have masturbated until orgasm was probably less than 10 mins.

I have been reading stuff on this forum and I think anxiety or my guilt may of been the major factor.

Anyway not much time left, thanks for replies so far. (ill thank every1 later when i have time haha) Any more insight would be appreciated.

thanks again

[ecojeanne]

could be simply down to your diet. you may not be getting all the needed nutrients to keep you body in top form.