My last gf, if I got a boner while we were making out while sitting down, she would stroke it through my jeans or whatever I was wearing. Or if we were standing she'd like for me to pull her closer so she could feel it pressed against her. God damn was that girl ever sexual! lol damn i miss her.
And the last person I kissed (whom I was working on) was a virgin and wasn't going to change that pre-marraige.. But she also enjoyed when I got a boner while making out. Completely natural and I don't see why a girl should find that to be a problem. Now, if you had a boner while she was telling you about her problems, that'd be an issue! LOL
The reason why men don't walk around with boners all the time is because they learn not to.
I get hard when women cry.
Haha, I had one of those too, but sadly thats the only thing I miss because she was a bitch in the end. There's plenty more women that would do that and enjoy it.
I find it funny when women get upset or offended by a boner. It should be a compliment, not an insult.
"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."
The Warmonger
Jerk it 3 times before the making out
Generally, the boner (aka erection) works to your advantage. She feels it; its involuntary excitement on your part, like was said earlier. The woman gets interested in it and takes a look or a feel and you both smile at each other. And then, well, you are no longer saving yourself for marriage.
geez its normal to have a boner because its a natural reaction. You will egt turned on when you are kissing because your body works it self up for the next stage (which you won't do until you married).
It shouldn't be off putting to the girl because she knows that you find her attractive.
Is that actually one of the nonverbal cues to initiate sex?
Anyways to the OP- it depends on how old you are. A lot of girls under 18 are a bunch of innocent prudes who would probably call you creepy for getting an erection while making out. A REAL woman knows its whats supposed to happen
I'm old. I expect it in making out otherwise the guy should leave me alone.
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
haha just try to hide it but if she sees it she may like it because she's turning you on
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I agree with vashti if you don't want to get a boner refrain from making out.
A boner is essential for a successful heavy petting or dry humping scenario. Sporting a stiff one is an internationally understood signal that a man wants coitus. Walk around WalMart with one and see what happens. 9 times outta 10 you will get head in the parking lot from some single welfare mother porno star wannabe high on meth.