Okay, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months now. For background info, we have religious differences, I tend to see her family as somewhat lower class (obviously I don't show nor say these things to her family. Her mom really likes me, but her step-dad doesn't like me because I am Muslim and he's a d*ck), and we have a no sex relationship. We aren't for that. We are each 16 years old.
So the problem.... her parents have some stupid rules. We aren't allowed to see eachother alone. We must see eachother with people her mom knows personally, There is only THREE people her mom trusts. So I always have to see her with her parents at her house, or out somewhere with those three people. It's ridiculous! Two of the three I don't like much. The one who is alright, can usually not do anything.
So this week I want my girlfriend to go to the movies with my two best friends but her parents won't let her go unless one of those three goes. (Once again the one I think is cool, cannot go). I don't want to invite my girlfriends' friend. I don't want her company, and it's pretty damn rude for her parents not to give two craps if they force someone in on our group.
Also we live far away and I can usually see her only once a week due to her parents' rules. Mainly her step-dad is the d*ck, but her mom ALWAYS appeases him. My girlfriend is extremely passive. She refuses to disrespect/rebel against her parents to make change although she doesn't get respect from them anyway.
I don't know how long I can keep doing this. I hate it, but I love her. What should I do? I've been thinking about maybe talking to her parents but they are low class, close-minded, idiots. So I don't know. So I'm open to all suggestions.
Side note- I used to be crazy into my bestfriend, and I hang out with her a lot, and I think my feelings are coming back, but I keep burying them. It's hard when you combine all this.
Anyway, thank you.