How to move on and get over him..

[cheesepuffs]

Hi, i was dating this guy for 2 years now.. but hes never learned to stop lying to me. over the past month hes been lying to me. He lies about stupid things like how much a ring he bought me was for ( saying it was more expensive then it was) and more seriuos things like making up stories about who realy called him ( says it was guy instead of a girl). He has a seriuos lying problem that ive been tryign to change, but i realize that the only person i can change is myself.. He lies and keeps on lying until theres actual proof that he got caught. For the past month he has been lying to me once a week.. and i just got so sick of it.. i know things will not get better if we kept on going out, but He wasnt only my boyfriend, but also my best friend. I was neglected during my childhood, and although i was unhappy with him a lot, the happy times made up for them.. its been 4 days and im trying to move on with my life, trying to look towards my future, trying to tell myself that he was only hurting my life, not helping it. I need advice on how to move on, how to realize theres more guys out there, and i am still young at 18 years old.. i know i have more of my life to live, but i came to realize the main problem was i loved him more then i loved myself.. How do i deal with this? how do i learn to love myself and that life goes on?? please help...

[damn2008]

These teenage-early 20's relationship break-ups are so pathetic sometimes.

1. Get some hobbies going to distract you mentally
2. NO CONTACT (very important)
3. When you're ready, date other guys

[Mish]

How do i deal with this? how do i learn to love myself and that life goes on?? please help...

Set aside a bit of time to mourning the death of your relationship. Understand in advance that moving on will not be easy, but it will get easier with time. Don't allow the breakup affect your self perception. Don't let lies like "I am faulty, I will never be good enough to be in a good relationship, I will never find someone else again" affect your judgment.