Wow, thank you all.

[Jynx]

Initially I signed up to this website because I was having a problem with my girlfriend. I was worrying about us and where we are going, things I've said, she has said. The common question "Will this last?" and then I several, several threads by different people all over this and I was enlightened. Thank you everyone, because of all these different posts I have realized, that, in general we over-analyze every single detail of a relationship. Really, look at all the different topics and read through some of them, there are questions about this and that.. everything.

If this is what a relationship is about I don't want anything to do with one. I don't need to wonder what I am doing or saying. This doesn't mean be a dick and never be there, that comes with companionship and the commitment of promising someone you will always be there. However the other drama, that is unnecessary , really.

Girls and guys alike need to relax and stop putting so much pressure on yourselves and each other. Are you happy? Then go with it, you can't expect perpetual bliss from a relationship. They are work, hard work. It is accepting that you will always be there for someone, its not all fireworks and show... I know this is starting to sound like a lecture, but I am really just trying to share something that I just came onto because of you all, and I am thankful.

I know this wont last, emotions will get a hold of me, I will have doubts. It happens. However I'm just going to let them brush off, it seems, after reading many threads the biggest enemy is ourselves and overthinking every single aspect. You ever notice that when your thinking, what is going to happen, you NEVER look at the good side. It's always the, we could break up, it could be over, she could think this. Relax with the knowledge that if she or he is a normal human being, chances are they are thinking and wondering and being insecure ect, ect about the same thing.

Anyway, feel free to comment. Thanks again, this site helped me quicker than i expected =D.

[Yggdrasil]

You ever notice that when your thinking, what is going to happen, you NEVER look at the good side. It's always the, we could break up, it could be over, she could think this. Relax with the knowledge that if she or he is a normal human being, chances are they are thinking and wondering and being insecure ect, ect about the same thing.

Yep, the sky could fall down, the moon could break up due to gravitational forces, a meteorite could strike New York, our sun could turn into a supernova.......

Meanwhile, people forget to live and they overlook what is happening around them. And then they wonder why they didn't see the writing on the wall.

[IndiReloaded]

Jynx, all kinds show up here. We tend to give them what they need (advice, kick in the pants, support), but not always what they want.

At the end of the day, tho, none of that really matters. As you say, its all the same after a while anyway. The real reason most of the posters come here: to have FUN.

You got it in one. Post, that is. Kudos and best wishes.