Do what feels good. Make out with girlfriend (notice the spelling) and then do what feels natural. It's only your first time, so relax. And after your first time you can always practice, practice, practice! That's the fun of it!
~Yes, this ring on my finger means that I am happily married, and no, this ring does not mean that you can flirt with me.~
~Marriage is not only the beginning of a relationship, but the end of a life long search for the other half of your soul.~~Unknown~
~Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your sense of balance and your choice of partner.~~Unknown~