need help help with something!

[steven ala]

so heres my situation: there was this girl who liked me.and i knew about it.and then this other guy asked her out and she said yes.now i realize that i actually like her but shes already taken.and the orst part is her boyfriend is this manwhore creep loser and she only likes him for his looks.which he has none of.but for some reason she is wityh this guy and all of her friends dont like him.but yet noone in the world can convince her to drop the zero and get a hero.and we talk every day and she says if she could go back in time she would have said no to him and ask me out.so what is the problem?the friggin guy brainwashed her is what he did.and the guy is just horrible,hes a jerk,hes a manwhore,a player and hes just no plain good for her.so this problem has been eating me up on the insides and idk what to do about it.can anyone please help me?

[Bumble_bee]

what would you like us to do? you say you and her friends tried to get her to break up with him and she won't.

Give her time to work out he is the jerk/manwhore you all see him as all by herself.....and you can be the rebound waiting for her on the other side....

[lastwish]

This is what happens when guys are too passive. You should've been a man and asked her out in the first place. Now, all you can do is let her figure out he's a jerk and a manwhore. Don't try to convince her either because she might think you only want what you can't have. You have to wait until she is over with him.

[steven ala]

dude i was just asking you guyts obviuously cant do anything i just would like some suggestions thats all

[lastwish]

We DID give you suggestions. Wait it out until she is over the other guy. Geez.

[steven ala]

no i was talkin about uggh...nevermind.and what if it dosnt end?what if shes never over him?thats the way it seems to be going........

[Bumble_bee]

Ok Ok...Steve, what we mean is that...It is too late, you ducked out when you had the chance, and now even if she breaks up with the dude, with all her reluctance do you think you would be anything more than her rebound?

Hang back Steve, if your friends your paths will keep crossing, and if you ever have the opportunity again...do nor waste it.

[Yggdrasil]

You're gona put your life on hold for her and miss all the chances meeting another girl?

Life is life. What will happen will happen.

The only one who can make her break up from that relation is the girl herself, once she realizes what she's gotten into.

Meanwhile, LIVE instead of holding on to a dream.

I hope that gives you the kick in the arse you need so badly.

[steven ala]

i guessssssss whatever its like that richard marx song "right here waiting"lol

[Bumble_bee]

try not contacting her for a while, maybe that will get her to realise what she is missing.

[steven ala]

but i talk to her every day like,i like her a lot.i couldnt go a day without talking to her.

[Bumble_bee]

keyword there was missing, make HER miss you.