what should i say?

[mattao702]

well my girlfriend and i are saying our final goodbyes tonight cause she broke up with me since i will be leaving for the navy in less than a month. i have been dreading saying goodbye to her for the last time because she wishes not to have any contact with me cause its just way too hard on her. i just dont know what to say to her when i meet her to say our final goodbyes.... any advice thanks

[Bumble_bee]

say: It was hot while it lasted..

no no just kidding....well whatever you feel would be appropriate, I mean are you guys going no contact? if so what have you to lose by telling her your feelings, but say you understand why its gotta be like this......

[SAVANAH]

Be honest and let her know where she stands with you, how much she means to you....
Tell her everything you never got the chance to say, be straight to the point and be sensitive and realistic!

Good Luck

[mattao702]

thanks... ya i just told her how i still really felt to her and we decided that we are still going no contact until after i leave she said she is going to maybe write to me aso we can still be good friends like we used to be

[Yggdrasil]

Well it's a bit to late now to give advice, but maybe for future reference:

Nobody ever made a big mistake by saying: thank you for the wonderfull times we shared and for being part of my life. I wish you all the best and all the happiness you deserve. Goodbye.

[jtrias2002]

Just talk to her how much you love her and reminisce the happy days, just make it casual and simple, just keep in you're mind that if destiny's will that you are really meant for each other then shall it be. just let her feel how much you love her.