will this help me get out of him?

[debiee]

hi. i met a guy few months ago.i fell in love with him and we shared perfect understanding.we were very comfortable with each other.i found him when i was undergoing a bad phase in life and affected myself to a greater extent; i used to be ill and not look all that good.he always used to ask me to take care and eat well and that he would like to see me when i am all healthy.but he was engaged to someone else.He said that he loved me too; guess its a feeling that is not in anyones control esp when u hav gr8 bonding.we got intimate but never had sex. i felt guilty for what happened and stopped talking to him, as it was not rgiht on my part.today my healths recovered compeltely and i look great. . he called a couple of times..but i avoided him...he said he wants to be only friends..nothing else.(i dont really know ; dont want to get into an extra marital affair..u know what i mean).moreover i am more attached to him than he is.so i am scared.he is married now.
i have tried a hell lot to forget him but i cant..i want to just meet him once as i really worked hard on my looks(i used to never care about it ever) only for him...will this help me forget him? plz advise
P.S: I know one should move on and i want to..men approach but i m stuck.no compliment seems good.. i just want to hear from him..why is this so?

[Gigabitch]

It's an unhealthy attachment and the only way to be free of it is to starve it to death. Don't contact him, don't even think about him. It will fade.