HELP! I'm in love with my best friends husband

[RLRRLS]

My best friend and her husband have 4 kids together and tons of issues. She's cheated on him 5 times that he's found out about in their 8 year marriage. The only reason they're not divorced is because of the kids and they're both miserable. He and I started having an affair 3 months ago and he told me he loved me. I haven't told him I live him back bu I do! Help! I don't know what to do!

[Bo]

wow your best friend's husband?.....whom which she has children with...

People like you are disgusting, I don't care whether or not they're miserable. You don't do that, that's fcuked up and disgusting and you're making both of their lives more difficult by adding more issues.

[Illusional]

i guess that you shouldn't consider her your best friend anymore huh? then again best friends share everything, and in this case, you do mean everything.

raverboy

[Doc Durian]

It's an affair, RLRRLS.

Pure and simple

And destined to blow up in your face and fail.

Sever all contact and move if you have to.

[Asip4u]

My best friend and her husband have 4 kids together and tons of issues. She's cheated on him 5 times that he's found out about in their 8 year marriage. The only reason they're not divorced is because of the kids and they're both miserable. He and I started having an affair 3 months ago and he told me he loved me. I haven't told him I live him back bu I do! Help! I don't know what to do!

Is there a question in here? You already started having an affair with this guy who is obviously having a lot of family issues..instead of being a good friend and try to help you decided to ruin things more...and now you want to know whether you should continue with family destruction?

[Bumble_bee]

you should have come here 3 months ago.

It's done now, you make your bed, you got to lie in it...but you know that right? I think you need to seriously think about the consequences of your actions, its not just you and him, hell if she has cheated who the heck cares about her...but there are 4 kids involved in this...another thing you already know...

do you really need advice on what to do?
are you looking for some kind of approval?

If you are at all with heart you will walk away from the both of them.