need advice

[drazilice]

i have been with my girlfriend for at least 7 months now but something that REALLY bugs me about her is how defensive she gets. for example we were watching a movie together while talking through aim and even though there are scenes where girls have on bikini's she sends me messages saying "dnt look at her boobs" and "i know you were looking at them" n she gets mad at me n wont talk to me prob for the rest of the night. n it gets me aggrivated because i never tell her to not look at a guy i mean its a freaking movie so what, i cant help where the freaking camera goes and my line of sight n once again ITS A MOVIE!!! the characters/actors obviously do not mean anything to me if im with her. what can i say or do to stop how defensive she gets?

[Doc Durian]

Tell her that you love her and only have bedroom eyes for her. It she can't wrestle this demon of hers to the ground, she's going to lose you for good.

[lastwish]

Whenever you're in that situation, say "Oh well. Looks fade over time anyways"

[IndiReloaded]

LOL. If she's this controlling now, just you wait....

[Doc Durian]

Jealousy is a funny beast. I've had it trample on me once, I think.

But there were reasons associated in a unique situation between another.

I'd personally cut her loose, if I was her fellow. Or at least give her the heads up of what will happen if she doesn't stop and desist.

Like Indi inferred, imagine the future when it's no longer about random pictures on the television but rather the people you work and associate with.

You give an inch now, and you're screwed later.