Hello, ill do my best to give all the details and thanks for reading
Ive known this girl for just about a year at first i didnt want a relationship and she did even though she really wanted to be with me ive been hurt and i couldnt do it so she found someone who would give her one since she doesnt like to just mess around, me and her remained good friends always there for each other and the best of best friends, i got feelings for her and once she was done with her boyfriend we got together, we never lie to each other, we can say anything, and when we fight all we need to do is hear each others voice and we are more than fine again, now we have been dating for lets say 4 months and been friends for a year now which ive always thought being friends before builds an amazing foundation. she recently went on vacation and my best friend pat and his other best friend which happens to be a girl we always party together so i decided it be nice to be good friends with her so i took her to lunch as friends, now someone told my girlfriend i was hooking up with her or something and shes got it in her head i cheated even though she has no proof and shes going off a simple convo with someone even thought the girl i took out called her even.... hints why i wanted to be friends with the girl because she just proved to be an amazing friend and try to help fix my relationship. what i dont get is she has never doubted my trust and ive always been there everytime she needed me, ive never told her im busy ive always came right then, but im striped from all my trust in a blink of an eye and she wont evne sit down and talk with me she talked to me on the phone for mayb 2-5 mins at a time a couple times, i told her i did nothing and to please let me talk but she wont, she called me the night of and asked what i was doing and i said just at home, did you want to come over and she replied i really dont know why i called, i kept her on the phone for a moment or 2 and that was it... i saw that as a good sign but i dont know i texted her good night but no reply, but yesterday the 2nd day after it happened i gave her a call at 2pm and never got anything back and now its the 3rd day, do i just not talk to her and give her time or do i send her a good night or what? i know i didnt do anything wrong her but i want to do what i can to fix this, she means the world to me and i can honestly say she felt the same before she believed these lies