I don't know ... It seems like it'd be nice to reassure your friend that it's not her fault that she isn't invited. If she finds out about it, she could end up feeling like she did something wrong. At least by letting her know that her husband is an a-hole, this could prevent him from being such a d-head in future gatherings.
A lot of times, a-holes are oblivious to their a-hole-ness.
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."