does size really matter?

[Lite]

I think the average width of a male hand is something like 4 inches. So you'd need to be eight inches long and that's not even including the head...

Sounds about right.

[Indignant]

Very true indeed!!!

you better be a girl. otherwise it's bullshit.

[abetterus]

I agree size shouldn't matter as far as length as long as it's 5" or more. Thickness is pretty much what almost all women agree on..

[vashti]

As far as the original poster, while 6 inches is the average, it is not the average for say, black people (not being racist its statistically proven).

Scientifically proven, huh? I'd like to see the link to that scientific article.

[doppelgaenger]

Please stop giving out false information. Size is an issue of compatibility. Some women like a bigger penis, others prefer a smaller one. It all depends on how the women is built. Now if you have a micropenis, that's almost always going to be an issue. But if your dick is as big as a well endowed horse's, it will cause you just as much trouble.

[Mr.Meat]

Are you tripping? Size matters. Thickness matters. Skills matter. Oral matters. Cleanliness matters. Positive vibrations matters. Passion matters. Respect matters. The only people who think size does not matter are people who have no size to work with. People with size don't even think about it. They know.
Guys with small cocks should date women with small vaginas.
The fact is the myth concerning men with small cocks was started by women with huge vaginas.

[CAM]

Length matters most when men are masturbating because its gives them a visual that turns them on...to themselves.

Beyond an often false sense of self-worth, women don't get much sexual pleasure from breast implants...but men, whether they admit it or not, get an involuntary boner every time they seem big titties.

Men are into the size issue much more than women, as has been said here.

Ultimately, if you make it happen for a woman, physiologically and emotionally, you (man) are doing it right for her...it really is case specific, guys!

[CAM]

Women generally talk about a guy's little prick when there actually much deeper emotional issues...it is just symptiomatic of the woman's lack of respect for the man and lack of desire for him. The little dick comment...it is about his virility as a man in the whole sense of the word. A guy with a little dick, physiologically, might be the toughest sonnabitch you ever met and will be her man in the face of any threat to her safety. Being a big dick (in the sense of virility) is actually a desirable trait so long as it can be tempered by gentlemanliness...and a woman who loves the big dick (sociologically) will be more than happy to tame the wild beast, in all manner of speaking.

[elfen31]

Girls i have a question. Does a big cock always mean better sex? I am not gonna lie im on the smaller side. (about 5.5 6 inches) but i know how to use it. I have never been with a girl who i didnt make cum at least once. So what more important, the feeling of a larger penis in your pussy...or a less endowed lover who can make you cry out loud? (I happen to enjoy making girls cum...more then cumming myself.us

Well no..but it helps...I must admit the more a guy has the better it feels especially if there is alot of width!!

[Jovanny]

By width, I assume you guys mean the measurement in inches AROUND the penis?

I just want to know since we are on topic...guys who wear magnum condoms are labled as having a big penis, right?

[CAM]

By width, I assume you guys mean the measurement in inches AROUND the penis?

I just want to know since we are on topic...guys who wear magnum condoms are labled as having a big penis, right?

No, they mean four inches in diameter which would mean that the average guy has a penis with a 12+" circumference.....

Duh, of course they mean 4" in circumference. Do you need the formula to figure out diameter or can you look that up on the Internet?

FYI. Penis size is a regular affliction discussed on the site. If I were female, I'd become a lesbian...the boys are a bunch of insecure ninnies.

[Jovanny]

No, they mean four inches in diameter which would mean that the average guy has a penis with a 12+" circumference.....

Duh, of course they mean 4" in circumference. Do you need the formula to figure out diameter or can you look that up on the Internet?

FYI. Penis size is a regular affliction discussed on the site. If I were female, I'd become a lesbian...the boys are a bunch of insecure ninnies.

Dude, why you being a jerk for? All I did was ask a damn question. No need to be an asshole about it.

[CAM]

Dude, why you being a jerk for? All I did was ask a damn question. No need to be an asshole about it.

Not being a jerk--just asking that you use your head before asking questions with obvious answers....like 5th grade math questions.

Tell ya one thing. If you do this kind of thing in front your GF or prospective GF, then it doesn't really make you look very smart.

I'll never forget this guy in college. He was eating breakfast with this international student (female) who was a gorgeous woman from the Netherlands. When she said that she was Dutch, he said that he'd "Never met anyone from Denmark." It was fun to sit across the dining hall and watch him totally **** himself when it came to ever dating her. And how did he **** himself over? By asking stupid questions.

[CAM]

In case you didn't get it....the Dutch are from the Netherlands. The Danish are from Denmark....

[brightgirl]

Great foreplay is huge, I agree with DoesntMatter in this, but I gotta go somewhat with Indignant too, because there is just no substitute for ... you know. lol.
So develop your skill. That's hugely important too. My friend had a husband who was apparently quite large but he didn't really have skill and she wasn't happy.
A big size doesn't always mean better sex. You can't do anything about your size - which seems fine btw - but you can develop skill in both areas and be VERY satisfactory.