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Thread: What's too much?

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    What's too much?

    I was just reading the "Sex Buddy" thread and someone said something along the lines of if you've had double digit sexual partners then you are a hedonist.

    I am almost 24, so I have been sexually active for the better part of 8 years. I've had two serious girlfriends for a total of 3 years. My second girlfriend was my eighth partner in 7 years, and since we broke up almost a year ago, I've been with 7 new partners(and 2 prior ones). So this brings the total to 15 women in 8 years for an average of roughly 2 partners per year of sexual activity. So as far as the average goes that's pretty much a new partner every 6 months. Is that really so bad that you would hold it against someone, 2 partners per year?

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    Whoooooooore!

    Just kidding. I think you're well within the range of "normal dudes".
    Spammer Spanker

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    I think so too, that's why I started this thread. I think I'm pretty normal, and was kinda surprised that simply hitting double digits was enough to disqualify me(or anyone else) from someone's dating pool.

    What are other people's thoughts on this subject? I usually don't get asked this question, but I want to have an answer prepared in case it comes up. Any suggestions on how to tell the truth in a euphemistic way to someone who thinks this is a lot?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Whoooooooore!

    Just kidding. I think you're well within the range of "normal dudes".
    Yeah, so do I.
    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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    I believe the response would have been largely different were you female.

    If you look back in history
    It's a common double standard of society
    The guy gets all the glory the more he can score
    While the girl can do the same but yet you call her a whore
    I don't understand why it's okay
    The guy can get away with it, the girl gets named
    -Christina Aguilera

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