my ex or not? dont no wat he wants

[blondee]

hi there. my ex and i had been going out on and off for five years. No matter what I always find we end up back in eachothers lives... At the mo we are just friends but spend everyday together. last night he wanted to have sex and so did i, he wont kiss me but he'll do anything else, iv even stayed in his house a few times. Anyway the sex was so meaningless and it may aswell have been with a stranger. i dont think i could ever be with him again because he doesnt know how to be a proper boyfrend. he spends alot of time with oher girls too not just me, he;s quite good looking so i think they like him.. but i just cant seem to let go, i get jealous wen hes with other girls but he doesnt seem to want to try and work thingss out with me... im getting total mixed signals pleeeeeeease help....

[Cbrider]

the sex was so meaningless and it may aswell have been with a stranger.

This is because you two are strangers to each other now. There's nothing left to rekindle, you are hanging on for whatever reason to a ship that is sinking.

All you are now is a booty call. He may at one point have cared about you and been in a relationship, but it is no more.

[Tug]

Your a friend with benefits, a booty call no more no less. Next time he calls or text's don't reply, no point in making yourself out to be more of a fool than you already have.

[Pyoko]

agreed drop him you will DEFINITELY thank yourself and sooner than later.

[andzelis]

Why don`t you try to talk with him and express your feelings, tell him how you feel about everything and maybe he will understand

[blondee]

thanks guys. its hard to just be rid of him though because i see him almost everyday and we are so close as friends. we broke up because our relationship was more friendly than anything else. i dont want to lose him as a friend either but will i find it awkward to be with someone else if we stay so close? i know im not completely ready to move on yet anyway. but when we are alone he stil treats me as if im his girlfriend. also when we were together, we never went out like seing a movie or for dinner or even a drink in the pub. he has health issues and he finds it hard to go places. and he culd go from seeing me everyday to just being with his friends everyday and not even calling me.