issit possible for u to totally ignore all calls and texts, go to lectures normally like nothing's happened and not even thinking of ur 3-year-ex once after u broke up?i just hope i could do that.
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09-08-09, 09:24 PM #1
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4getting someone
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10-08-09, 04:44 AM #2
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Time is the best healer, it will be difficult at first, sometimes so difficult you might think of doing some stupid things. However eventually it will become easier and easier, but when/if you see them again feelings can sometimes come rushing back, I'm not going to lie, it will NOT be easy, and might even affect your studies, but time is by far the best healer.
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10-08-09, 05:13 AM #3
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i can do that because i don't ponder on things like that.. yup, i can be a dickhead when i'm hurting.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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11-08-09, 01:52 AM #4
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the prob is i cudnt control myself from doing stupid things..maybe i have some kinda mental illness..we quarreled n broke up many times its obvious that she's not my type.i did everything to maintain the relationship i swear i knw it sounds stupid but i tried going out with friends but i still have to attend lectures and i cudnt focus at all.im skipping lectures now bcuz they make me suffer alot..the most painful thing is she acts like everythings normal n started texting other boys already.i need a solution to help me get thru this really quickly please..before i fail..
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11-08-09, 02:06 AM #5
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Start talking to other girls. Fight fire with fire.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.
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11-08-09, 10:08 PM #6
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after breaking up and getting 2gether again for so many times ive learned my lesson. doing and saying things that will hurt each other will not help me get her back. it might make me feel better for a few minutes or so, but i will be deeply regretful after that..the reason i still love her so much is because i love her. and she did things that really touched my heart too. i'll just take the advice from the other guy in another topic. work n study really hard n just hope she'll miss me and come back to me one day.
