I've been with my boyfriend about 7months andlove him dearly.We're having a long distance relationship, so ony see each other every couple of weeks, but keep in touch by phone and online.Everything was great, until about 7 weeks ago or so we came close to breaking up, we'dboth beenbotlling stuff (hes not a great communicator) and managed o talk it through n seemedmotre in love than ever. then 2 weeks ago he went a bit funny n said it wasnt me but he neededsome time to sotrt himself out a bit (not from mebut other stuff going on which he didnt elaborate on much ) i gave him this as best i could...and hes been to see me since. Since he got ho,me though ghes been different..ive asked whats up n he says nothing is! ive also told im my fears n insecurities than im losing him, n hes either ignotred my almost pleas for reassurance..or just nodeed and podsted a cuddle! hes never ben his way..though hes still telling me he loves me. how can i gethim to open up and let me know whats wrong ,if anything, and o reassure me if theres not without pushing him away?
i can be very insecure due to past bad experience and having bpd.