And what do you mean no one sees you as a person... .. . that is so silly.
And what do you mean no one sees you as a person... .. . that is so silly.
1) You desperately need to find a girl and make physical contact with her, you will change your perspective instantly
2) You won't find a girl in this era with your frame of mind.
3) Your problem is you don't respect women. Women want respect over anything.
4) Stop whining. Focus your energy on improving yourself and listen to the advice of the wonderful people on this forum.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.
I am such an idiot I did a really terrible thing and I want everyone to tell me how bad I am. I had a long week and I was looking for relaxation... do you know what I did ?...
I went and slept with a prostitute. She is 20, she is very pretty, and she was very sad about her job. I feel just awful for doing what I did. She looked like she might break down.
I am a bad person and it cost me 200 bucks..but now I feel like all the stress has drained away from my body and I feel happier with myself.
But I feel stupid for wasting 200 bucks and I feel bad for the girl and I feel so guilty for doing what I did..... ... ...
I should beg for forgiveness and try to learn a lesson from this but I doubt that I ever will learn.
For all your fear, anger, hatred, frustrations, and feelings of rejection by the opposite gender... it never occurs to you that women may (and do at times) feel such things in regards to men.
Women weren't put on this earth to make you suffer... you're doing a fine job of that yourself...
When you finally figure this out... when you finally stop with the self-loathing and playing the blame game... then you'll realize what a fool you have been and how much time you have wasted.
Hopefully by then, it won't be too late for you.
Yes I know I am bad. Mad with lust for money and women. Bad man. No modesty or willingness to just do my best and be happy with what I have. The one thing that has led to some success in my life.
I can't have a girlfriend, so what ? I should just be happy I am alive and doing well...because I am already one of the luckiest people in the world.
Guilt is overrated. But it is the price you pay for ignoring the anger that is directed at yourself.
Did you know, George, that there is no guilt with acts that are just?
Spend some more time listening to that voice inside you. Or, just accept what you do for the reasons you do it. Like Doc says, it seems there was an equitable transaction. Why feel guilty afterward? You didn't beat her, did you? Or did you really want to marry her?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
The only thing I would suggest to you guys (OV & George) is to keep this stuff to yourself. When you meet a nice gal that you are really into, she could be frightened off by your history with prostitutes. Be discreet and use the 'a gentleman never tells' line.
I know how that sounds. Its dishonest, blah, blah. But if you can be truly okay with your history (people have needs) then I would suggest you avoid the temptation to self-destruct with full disclosure. At least not right away. Be responsible, of course. Make sure you are STD-free, but otherwise keep your guilty mouths shut.
Life is full of these ambiguities. Life is not black and white. Too many people shoot themselves in the foot before they ever get a chance to run, without actually knowing why they do so.
Be smart about your choices when they present themselves to you.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
I don't know why we bother responding. We tell George the same things over and over but he ignores it or just reverts back to his default misogynism.
The last time I will waste my breath saying this: George, no good woman is going to be attracted to you as long as you continue on with your hate and disrespect for women. I don't know why you even want a girlfriend when you hate women so much.
If you don't fix the way you think, you're going to be a very lonely man.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
I don't hate women anymore...... I think I just needed sex.
atta boy ....
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
uumm no, I really do want a girlfriend but I do also need sex. It makes all the stress and anger drain away from my body I feel lighter her smell made my head feel lighter.
Who was the idiot poster who asked if I hit her ? My god, it was sex, not combat what the ****... the ignorance of some people astounds me.
Okay so women are not attracted to me I can live with that, stop trying to find excuses for them to make yourself feel all pure.