First and last?

[Lipp]

Haven't got any real issue per say, everything has been going very smoothly now after 8 months. It's more of a consideration.

Basically, despite hanging out with girls a bit previously this has been my first proper relationship, and while it's all going well I'm just wondering - do you reckon that not experiencing a different relationship to compare it to will cause questioning of "what it could have been like"?

It's not really bothering me at the moment, but it's just since it could probably surface over time, so choosing to counter it would be more effective if considered earlier on.

Cheerio.

[girl68]

How old are you?

If you're young... and this is your first likely it won't be the last. So just go with the flow. Don't sabbatoge anything but just live and learn. A relationship will teach you lots so learn with her and grow. Whatever happens will just happen.

If you're older... late 20's or older then I'd say yes, these feelings you have will not go away forever. They will over time resurface. But think about it you're experiencing dating/ relationships already. You have a girl, you're dating her... you're not marrying her. Your dating lofe is hardly doomed or over! Seriously what would you counter it with empty, one night stands? Do you just want to have one date one night with one girl and another girl the following night?

[Bumble_bee]

huh? you wanna have a contingency plan for when you (but your not now) start thinking about having experiences?

[Bumble_bee]

* I meant other experiences outside of this relationship.