shes put me in alot of trouble :( im scared

[IndiReloaded]

British system is basically same as Canada. Which is somewhat like the US one.

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thanks.
well I guess she did press charges as I did get charge for Common Assault (no battery) and also Sexual Assault (which got dropped, then put back up again by CPS)

I am based in the UK.
She had friends there with her who obviously supported her.

the officer said that she was pretty upset at this time, but so was I.... because it was an emotional/break up time and because she was upset already even before entering the house.

she texted me before saying if I am at her house, that she will give me my things... I did go to her house to see if she was there, she wasnt... then I waited and she came and was upset with her friend and this is how the whole situation started.

of course, I didnt get any of my things back because of nothing but arguments and upsetness and what not.

there are no witnesses on the "touching of the breasts" but her word against mine. she was obviously wearing clothing and was wearing the jacket I bought her, plus her arms were folded/crossed covering her breasts.


I asked if we can talk in the kitchen, she agreed.
Went to the kitchen and asked her to close the door, she did.

I then said why is she doing this and there is no need and we can work it out, obviously she never could look at me in my face and was just upset.
I said please look at me, please and talk about it. she looked at me, smiled some what then looked away again.

I held my arms out to indicate to hug and calm down and talk and comfort each other.
she gave me a nod and I went to her, and held her by the shoulders (softly) to turn her around slowly as she was facing away, and tried to peck her on the cheek then she said "no, off.... off" and she moved away, and my peck went on her left shoulder.

she was behind the door and at this point her friend barged in to "open wine" at which point when the door was opening, I stepped back so the door wouldnt hit me or my ex.

[Gigabitch]

Do not go to get your things, even if she says she wants to talk. Don't be alone with her at all, ever again. She has shown you what she's capable of- don't let a stalking charge get put on top of the pile.

You probably have the sense to know this, but I just had to say it.

[IndiReloaded]

Oh man. She pressed charges. You are beyond stupid to keep trying for any contact especially w/o witnesses.

If you pick up your stuff, do it with someone else present, like what she does.

Anyway, things don't happen in a vacuum. Either she is nuts, or there are things you did & aren't fessing up to. Either way, the game is up & you need to get this sorted out asap and both stay away from each other. She's got kids, you both need to at least be responsible for their sakes.

Just saw this, makes my post redundant except we are both telling you the same thing:

Do not go to get your things, even if she says she wants to talk. Don't be alone with her at all, ever again. She has shown you what she's capable of- don't let a stalking charge get put on top of the pile.

You probably have the sense to know this, but I just had to say it.

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no no no no no.
this was when she said she wanted to see me, then said she would give me my things on that day that all this happened - I NEVER contacted her after all this at all in any way especially since i have a bail condition.
plus her kids werent there any way as they were with their dad who lives in a different city.

i always put her and her kids first, never me even though she said to me that me and the kids come first, i said no no - kids always first.

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could not sleep again. just, no idea what to do. had nightmares. wish i could sue her but I know I probably cant.