Ladies i really need some advice......please help.

[imthedjone]

Yes!! that is what it mean.....

I'm not sure if by showing to her that you care about her will help you in anyway. Do you want to get back with her???? Do you think she is the one that you want to spend your life with???

To tell you honestly yes......i have dated and been in other relationship in the past and none were like this one. ive been through break ups and moved on fine, but she is the first one that i know i shouldnt let go. she is the first one that i can honestly say is worth fighting for. i just wish i know where to start, especially that there is no contact between us. all i know is i dont want her to be "the one that got away."

[lilac]

To tell you honestly yes......i have dated and been in other relationship in the past and none were like this one. ive been through break ups and moved on fine, but she is the first one that i know i shouldnt let go. she is the first one that i can honestly say is worth fighting for. i just wish i know where to start, especially that there is no contact between us. all i know is i dont want her to be "the one that got away."

I can see how difficult it is to let someone that you think might be the one to get away. If you really really love her, your best option is to wait. Move on with your life, go out, have fun, see other people, and one day you might ran into her and she might change her mind. THERE IS NOTHING ELSE you can do to change her mind, she doesn't want you in her life right now. Its obvious that you are not ready to let this go but as in right now you don't really have a choice.

You also have to face the fact that she might never come back. You will not do yourself any good by trying to contact her. She will contact you if she want to. And when she contact you, its your decision then.

I don't like seeing people getting hurt in a relationship, I feel bad that you are in the situation that you are right now but if you are planning in getting back with her in the future, I'm telling you right now that you need to prepare yourself for another dilema.

[imthedjone]

To tell you honestly yes......i have dated and been in other relationship in the past and none were like this one. ive been through break ups and moved on fine, but she is the first one that i know i shouldnt let go. she is the first one that i can honestly say is worth fighting for. i just wish i know where to start, especially that there is no contact between us. all i know is i dont want her to be "the one that got away."

I can see how difficult it is to let someone that you think might be the one to get away. If you really really love her, your best option is to wait. Move on with your life, go out, have fun, see other people, and one day you might ran into her and she might change her mind. THERE IS NOTHING ELSE you can do to change her mind, she doesn't want you in her life right now. Its obvious that you are not ready to let this go but as in right now you don't really have a choice.

You also have to face the fact that she might never come back. You will not do yourself any good by trying to contact her. She will contact you if she want to. And when she contact you, its your decision then.

I don't like seeing people getting hurt in a relationship, I feel bad that you are in the situation that you are right now but if you are planning in getting back with her in the future, I'm telling you right now that you need to prepare yourself for another dilema.

so without her contacting me for two months does show that there is nothing left correct?

[lilac]

You need to give yourself time and move on. If she is the right person, she'll come back to you eventually. You need to realize that she doesn't want anything at all to do with you right now. You have a great life infront of you, enjoy that while you can. Live, be happy, I know that she makes you happy but that doesn't mean you can't be happy without her. If you were made for each other, you'll get back together (even though she really really didn't seem to be the right person for you). You seems like a nice guy, I'm sure you shouldn't have a hard time to find the right girl. You just have to stop thinking about her and look forward.....