I'm just so frustrated with this person i really need advice.
so i've been trying out online dating and i met this guy. now he is 32 an i'm a 20 year old virgin. on our first date i very casually slipped in that i am a virgin and that if he is looking for a quick lay he needs to move on, but he said he was totaly cool with it and that it didn't matter ,i was very surprised and pleased. now this guy is VERY good looking and actually would easily pass for a 25 year old, so i know he gets laid when he wants to.
on date two though he kept commenting on my looks and how amazingly hot i am and how he couldn't concentrate on what i was saying cause he always wanted to kiss me, it made me slightly uncomfortable but i decided to just go with the flow and we ended up making out.
now tonight i was talking to him online and he kept bringing up sex, and asked me questions which i answered, but as a joke i made a comment on how he is always htinking about sex. he got super defensive and tells me i'm weirdishly asexual, and have no sex drive and that this is the first time he ever met a girl who doesn't care about sex like me and said that normal ppl always talk about sex....
now can you guys please clear this up for me. is it normal to always want to talk about sex or is he just trying to guilt me or trick me into sleeping with him. it's not that i'm protective of my virginity i just want to go with the flow, slowly get close to someone enough to trust them and then whatever happens happens, i don't really wanna sit around discussing it. is that weird of me? i'm very confused.