i need some advice please

[brando]

well i was in a relationship for 4 years engaged for 2 of those years.I took care of her child like he was mine since he was one and i love him very much. well we broke up about a year ago she said she needed some space ok great well she moved with her mom a month later shes got a boyfriend. I was crushed still am.I still love her and she secretlly talks to me she tells me she still loves me blah blah blah but she wont come home shes so confused blahah.This has been going on since we broke up a year ago she has even came over to my house after a night of drinking and lets just say she cheated on him. Now this guy gives her a ring and there geting married i am absolutly crushed what can i do can i change her mind can i stop it i want her back! Just a week ago she sends me a text it say "dont text back but i love you" and shes planning a wedding i cant even think about dating anyone and shes geting marred!!!!!what can i do?

[davidtorres]

damn dude. That's messed up. You're talking about marriage here. If they do get married and he finds out that she cheated on him then he will probably shoot you. You have to understand that its different when they get married. Also, shes a slut. Its crazy how she can cheat on his guy for you. She probably cheated on you too when you guys were together. What you can do is tell the guy what has been happening/that she cheated. I'm pretty sure that will stop the wedding. She does not deserve the guy that will marry her.

[brando]

yeah dude she has cheated on me and ive got into a fist fight already with this retard and hes been told she still talks to me then she prolly sucks him off and he forgets all about it

[davidtorres]

Why do you want to go back to a girl that cheated on you? Have some respect to yourself. Seriously, this guy is doing you a favor. He's marrying a cheater. Do you have any idea how miserable his life will be?

Let it go and find another girl. This is drama.

[brando]

yeah your right man but theres alot of attactment with the kid and remember i was engaged to her first she still loves me hes the one pushing for marrige i dont think i will last if she even goes through with it i dont want her to do i just wunna give it another shot. If i tell him she cheated on him she would hate me and theyd prolly be more in love.

[davidtorres]

Look man, If she loves you she will be with you. If she respects you then she wouldnt have cheated on you. She has the option to stop the wedding but she didn't stop it right? So, the way i see it. She will get married and will make you her last resort. That means if her husband is gone then she will go for you. You're like a doormat right now. Do you want to be like that? I know it hurts but have some balls and let it go. Find yourself a girl that will deserve your love.