Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
Yes, I thought about that....but I don't know if I'd trust his response right now. He has indicated that he is pretty infatuated with me, and he seems to be pretty thrilled to have me back. He may either be so caught up in his emotions that he couldn't see this possibility, or would say anything he thought I wanted to hear. I am thinking maybe I should wait a bit until he's settled down and then bring up this discussion?
Later on you may find it more difficult to bring it up because with time your feelings will grow and it will become more difficult to find the "right time". I think now you have a good opportunity to get it over and done with and explain to him in no uncertain terms that you are only taking him back if he forfeits this desire. Let him know that this is your deal break and if he is taking you back then he accepts this part of the agreement.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
I wonder if he would be so enthusiastic about a MFM threesome. Maybe that suggestion would show him how it feels.
Spammer Spanker
I had a talk with him about it. He said that's in his past and he would never/doesn't want to do that with me, yada, yada, yada. I don't necessarily believe that though because of how much he brought it up previously. I have done things in past relationships that I enjoyed but wouldn't want to do again but I don't bring them up with my curent partner.
Also, that's one of the things that REALLY bothers me about the whole thing..... He told me how he stopped dating a woman once because she told him she had been in a MFM threesome. He felt that she was "too wild"!
I came to the conclusion that its, obviously, not just the threesome that bothers me, its an underlying element of his outlook and personality. He is not athletic, doesn't have a good job, is not particulary strong or attractive, and seems sensitive about failing to appear "masculine" enough. For as much as he talks about women, ex-lovers and sex, I think deep down inside he is a nice, yet insecure guy who is trying to bolster his ego by being some kind of "sexual god". What's sad is, the blend of insecurity and raging ego actually makes him less attractive, both in and out of bed.
He is funny and smart and while I enjoy his company, I can't get past these issues. So now I get to figure out how to politely stop seeing him for the second time in a month!! Not fun!
Dear John,
While I feel that you are a truly nice man and I find you extremely attractive, I can't help but blame you for the wild urges your masculine sexiness has aroused in me. I find myself constantly fantasizing about being in the middle of a football huddle, stark naked. I can't explain it- I was never like this before. It must have been those suggestions you made about threesomes. They have awakened a side of me I never knew existed, and this new side requires attention.
I'm going to the Navy barracks now, but thought I should let you know first in case you're interested in joining me.
love and kisses,
Flora
Spammer Spanker
Ha ha ha!
I love it!
lol, Gigas got the right idea
But yeah, threesomes seem REALLY hot