I am a very shy girl.

[Stay]

Hi there!
I am a very shy girl from South East Asia.
I try to come across the shyness, but it never happenned.
I hope you here, could give me some advice about my love issue.
Thank you.

Stay

[LonelyEngineer]

first that's not an issue =oÞ , most of men like shy girls cos they are pretty cute.

which situation u become ashamed ???

welcome =o)

[Stay]

I am just to shy to show interest to a guy I like.
Just too afraid to talk, or even look at him.

Once when I had a date, my hands were shaking.
So many chances passed me by.
This won't happen when I dated the guy I don't like.

Is that sound like an issue?

[Bipra]

i think u are right.your shyness is good for you.dont loose it keep it up....

[AdminOnline]

I am just to shy to show interest to a guy I like.
Just too afraid to talk, or even look at him.

Once when I had a date, my hands were shaking.
So many chances passed me by.
This won't happen when I dated the guy I don't like.

Is that sound like an issue?

Are you a sociable person?

[Stay]

Are you a sociable person?

I think so.
But come to think of it, I do not have a new friend, if I am still with my old friends.

I never feel lonely when I am alone.

OMG! Is that my another problem?

[AdminOnline]

I think so.
But come to think of it, I do not have a new friend, if I am still with my old friends.

I never feel lonely when I am alone.

OMG! Is that my another problem?

Just show you can be independent by yourself. It is fine and normal especially you are adult now.

Perhap, you just lack the 'touch' with the opposite site.. Got to mix , talk and mingle with among them more..

A good start is via online messenger, social network sites etc..

[DarkAzrael]

A cute shy young Asian girl? You should have no problem hooking up with any guy in an engineering or IT field, I spek from experience, you are their fantasy.....

[Love-advisor]

This shows that you are very nervous when you love somebody as you dont want to loose him.Be a little bit bold, i am sure you will overcome it.

[province]

I praise you for being okay with being alone. It shows strength. Many people in America cannot stand being alone and so jump from person to person looking to fill a hole in themselves. They don't realize that there isn't a hole, just a lack of connection with themselves in the present moment.

I wish you the best! For shyness, I say go out and meet more people. Push your comfort level, you'll see that there isn't a real reason why you should be afraid of talking to people you don't know (as long as you are in a safe situation).

Cheers!

[Stay]

Thank you every one for your advice.
I just want more confidence.
Sometime I think I should see a therapist, or join a meeting group.
It might help me.

Anyway, I am not that young. I am 31. And I've never been in relationship.
I was fine then, and will be fine.
Just feeling that I am missing something.