...me and my ex-girlfriend will get back together?
We split up a few days ago because she felt that I was her only focus and she felt claustrophobic, also that she felt like we were already settling down. We'd only been going out for just over 8months.
I agree with her on the points she made now, but at the time when she told me I didn't realise what she meant and it confused me... I do need another focus apart from her and I plan to do something about it.
The way we left it, or she left it was "At the moment we both just need some space away from each other. I want to stay friends and keep in touch I can't block you out of my life, we'll just see how things go!"
She'll be going to uni soon and will be back around Christmas time... We also both agreed that we'd meet up when she was back. At the time I didn't really think anything of it, but as I've had time to think it got me wondering... Is there hope maybe when she's back that we could get back together?
I just feel so right with her I love her so much! Even though its my first relationship I was so happy and it felt perfect. I keep telling myself that I should not hold onto what she said and keep my options open because anything could happen! likewise for her.
She said it would take a long time for her to get over the break-up and she won't be looking for a relationship straight away. I'll see her at Christmas. Maybe if I change in that time and show her that I'm more independent then she might look at me in a different light.
She obviously still cares about me and wants to keep in touch and agreed to meet up, What does everybody think?
Thanks!