Can i hook up with this chick (pics)

[Aeradalia]

Sings... "Fat-bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round."

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[Gigabitch]

whatttt...IMO he looks like he has "down syndrome" - no offense to anyone

What can I say? He makes me feel "special".

I still think the guy in the first pic is twice as attractive as you, Loftus. This isn't because I'm anti-blond or something- you actually resemble my husband, back when he was in ninth grade. That guy just has good shoulders and sexier hair than you.

[MVPlaya]

And he kind of used it in a positive way, like, he was glad she has a fat ass because it means he might have a shot.

I'm not sure thats a positive way.

"I have low self-esteem so I am going to point out this girls' faults to drag her down to my level."

Granted, girl68's responses are just stupid and, guess what, you have no effect on changing this guy's chances with this girl, whatsoever, no matter how much emphasis you put into your posts.

But that said, Loftus, this is just a stupid thread. As if you can explain the whole situation by looking at two pictures, and we do some universal mental calculation to tell you what your odds are with this girl. There's only one way to find out and thats to go for it, not to ask random strangers to evaluate your match chances based on random headshots.

if she had a model type body, no way in hell would i have a shot

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[Aeradalia]

What can I say? He makes me feel "special".

I still think the guy in the first pic is twice as attractive as you, Loftus. This isn't because I'm anti-blond or something- you actually resemble my husband, back when he was in ninth grade. That guy just has good shoulders and sexier hair than you.

Meh... The other guy is simply too generic looking.

Loftus is a little too thin in the face and a bit more lithe than what is essentially my "type" but I'm sure he'd have no problem attracting women once he has his confidence in order.

[Loftus]

I'm not sure thats a positive way.

"I have low self-esteem so I am going to point out this girls' faults to drag her down to my level."

Granted, girl68's responses are just stupid and, guess what, you have no effect on changing this guy's chances with this girl, whatsoever, no matter how much emphasis you put into your posts.

But that said, Loftus, this is just a stupid thread. As if you can explain the whole situation by looking at two pictures, and we do some universal mental calculation to tell you what your odds are with this girl. There's only one way to find out and thats to go for it, not to ask random strangers to evaluate your match chances based on random headshots.
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my bad, but generally speaking, you can evalute two people's faces and tell whether or not they are close to each other on the looks scale. I dont want to be put in an awkaward situation and this thread was just reassuring the fact that I may be in her league....that is all

[MVPlaya]

my bad, but generally speaking, you can evalute two people's faces and tell whether or not they are close to each other on the looks scale. I dont want to be put in an awkaward situation and this thread was just reassuring the fact that I may be in her league....that is all

If I pointed out all the things that I find problematic in this post I could spend all day typing, but I'm just going to point out the common thread that binds them:

You are an insecure pussy and you need to get over it.


There is no magical "looks" league that classifies people and prevents certain people from dating others. You are not put into a league, that league bullshit is you yourself telling yourself you're not good enough, and if you believe it, so will the girls you're hitting on.

You need to go out there and have the balls to make a move and be willing to take flak for it. Two weeks ago I literally had a girl loudly tell me to go **** myself and to leave at a house party because she got offended at a joke I made, and she started making a scene. Know what happened? Nothing. I told her to enjoy her night, went to a different room, found a different girl, and took her home.

There are plenty of people in life who are going to make things awkward for you. Sometimes its your fault, sometimes other people will do it on purpose just to deny you something in life, if you put your tail between your legs because you can't deal with awkwardness, then it is going to be incredibly easy for all men and women around you to control your life with small social moves that you don't know how to counter.

[Loftus]

If I pointed out all the things that I find problematic in this post I could spend all day typing, but I'm just going to point out the common thread that binds them:

You are an insecure pussy and you need to get over it.


There is no magical "looks" league that classifies people and prevents certain people from dating others. You are not put into a league, that league bullshit is you yourself telling yourself you're not good enough, and if you believe it, so will the girls you're hitting on.

You need to go out there and have the balls to make a move and be willing to take flak for it. Two weeks ago I literally had a girl loudly tell me to go **** myself and to leave at a house party because she got offended at a joke I made, and she started making a scene. Know what happened? Nothing. I told her to enjoy her night, went to a different room, found a different girl, and took her home.

There are plenty of people in life who are going to make things awkward for you. Sometimes its your fault, sometimes other people will do it on purpose just to deny you something in life, if you put your tail between your legs because you can't deal with awkwardness, then it is going to be incredibly easy for all men and women around you to control your life with small social moves that you don't know how to counter.

thanks for being direct, i appreicate it and will learn from my mistakes..just not much experience with women