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    Does it mean anything when my bf who left me for his ex-gf still checks my blog?

    My boyfriend left me for his ex-gf a little about three months ago. We have not been together for a long time, but it was not a short time either. I keep myself busy- working more, exercising, going out with friends, etc. I am a little better, but I am still hurting. I just happened to see a recent picture of them together and they look very happy. I also saw how one of his best friends wished them well. I had genuine feelings for him even though he didn't. I am handling it much better than before. I have this blog that I write on and I know he checks it at least once a week. I have NOT WRITTEN anything about HIM after the breakup or how hurt I am. I write about how my day was and how I'm starting to see this guy.

    Why does he check my blog once a week when I have not written anything about him?

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    People are nosey by nature and guys are no exception. He probably had feelings for you and still cares about how you are doing, but obviously can't call you up and ask, so this is probably his way of keeping up with you. Good for you for not saying anything negative about him. Taking the high road is always the way to go.
    Life is too short to be unhappy or spend your time with people you don't like.

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    He's probably checking up on you to see if you've moved on.

    Don't pay any attention to it. Just do the best you can to forget about him.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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    Maybe he's keeping tabs on you in case his new relationship fails to work out? If you show signs of missing him he may make an attempt to contact you later on so that he can 'befriend' you and keep you as a back up.

    Even if this behavior turns out to be harmless, I would still leave him alone. Focus on moving on with your life.

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    I think [url]www.doclove.com[/url] would have the answer to that.

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