Recently i had a cyber romance which ended in break up, the problem is he claims he won't go back with me but yet he constantly sends me emails asking me how i am telling me he does not want me to dissappear and he went as far as giving my home number an cell number to a chat friend so he could find out if i was ok. He sent me an offline message saying he really cares about me and that i am very special to him i try to keep away from him because honestly i really care for him and it hurts the way he rejects me and looks for me when i dissappear, he confuses me i spoke to him a couple of days ago and asked him is there a chance we will go back and he said no, so i am not looking for him again, h e really confuses me, he told a friend he doesn't believe what i say...reason was that we were supposed to meet and i had to cancel that meeting for a later date. he says i lied about the reason and honestly i did not lie, so what do i do? He is saying now he can't trust me i feel hurt...we are not teens we are both 31 and divorced parents of one child.