why is she mad?

[jonandsam]

phew...ok so i dont ever do this but i need help.

my ex girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago, she told me that she has been lying to herself for years about her being gay. as much as this hurts me i love her with all my heart and i want her to be happy. this is where my recent problem is... last week she called me crying about her new gf's alcohol problems...i was dying inside pretending that i didnt love her anymore and i was being a good friend. only that i was at a club with some friends. she called me an asshole and said she hopes some slut ****s me...??? we argued for awhile about how she left me and how her "life is ****ed up right now", well things calmed down and we were ok. then last night she txt me about her gf again, i gave her my thoughts and somewhere along the convo i told her i have a date next friday with a girl i met at a book store. her text : well thats ****ing great hope u have a fantastic time asshole...

i dont know whats going on, she tells me all these different things "we should see other people" "im gay" "the thought of guys makes me sick now"(that one really hurt me). why is she mad at me? dont i deserve to be happy too?

[Rob36]

Shes trying to keep you at arms length-she wants to do what she wants,but she also wants to keep you in her life.Its totally selfish of her to ask you to advise her on her girlfriends problems

If shes reacting like that about you seeing someone its a classic case of "i dont want him but no one else can"

Youve done nothing wrong