Girlfriend broke up.. need a womans look.

[Madklown187]

So my Girl broke up with me.. im so hurt and upset.

Her reasons seem way to cliche to be the truth...

The relationship started out super lovey dovey like they all do. Im a very sensative and emotional guy, i wear my heart on my sleeve as people say.

She on the otherhand is more indapendant and less showing of her feelings.

Which kinda bothers me cause i like to be told things like i say to her..

I constantly tell her she is gorgeous,beautiful,amazing, and i love her.

She used to say that stuff back.. then it slowly fadded and she said it less.. and then more less.. to the point where it felt like she didnt like me anymore... i was suspicious for awhile.. but she led me to beleive everything was okay.

so one day i send her a message on myspace truth box. (its anonymous, so she doesnt know who said it)

Here is the convo.
Me: I wish you felt for me, as much as i do for you.

Her: Who knows i just might.

me: No, I know you dont.

Her: have i told you that?

me: No, but if you did you would show it.

Her: who knows at this point... im so lost in my head i dont know what to do anymore...im with someone that im not sure if i want to be with. i just want to be alone again.... i hate being in situations like these.

Me: Wow, well.. i originally sent this message NOT in looks for a response... cause i really felt like you didnt care like i did. And now u just proved it to me... nice to know when u say i love u its lie.

She then IM'd me and thats when she started saying stuff like.

"I do love you, just not as much as you love me. and it should be equal."

"I cant give you as much love as you give me"

"I dont deserve, all the love you give me and all the things you do for me"

"I like you and i love you, just not enough to be with you"

I pretty much said.. you may love me as a friend, but dont say you LOVE me.. cause its a ****ing lie.. if you really loved me, even a little you would not want to leave me cause of this.

She says she still cares and wants to be friends, but feels she needs to be alone for while.

This whole i dont deserve you is BS...and so Cliche..

Any girls wanna give there thoughts on this? I do believe that she cant give me the love that i give her, she just obviously doesnt feel for me as much as i do for her.

[Lovegirl123]

She is not in love with you, she cares about you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt you but she is not in love with you. That's all there is to it unfortunately, all you can do is try to move on.

So my Girl broke up with me.. im so hurt and upset.

Her reasons seem way to cliche to be the truth...

The relationship started out super lovey dovey like they all do. Im a very sensative and emotional guy, i wear my heart on my sleeve as people say.

She on the otherhand is more indapendant and less showing of her feelings.

Which kinda bothers me cause i like to be told things like i say to her..

I constantly tell her she is gorgeous,beautiful,amazing, and i love her.

She used to say that stuff back.. then it slowly fadded and she said it less.. and then more less.. to the point where it felt like she didnt like me anymore... i was suspicious for awhile.. but she led me to beleive everything was okay.

so one day i send her a message on myspace truth box. (its anonymous, so she doesnt know who said it)

Here is the convo.
Me: I wish you felt for me, as much as i do for you.

Her: Who knows i just might.

me: No, I know you dont.

Her: have i told you that?

me: No, but if you did you would show it.

Her: who knows at this point... im so lost in my head i dont know what to do anymore...im with someone that im not sure if i want to be with. i just want to be alone again.... i hate being in situations like these.

Me: Wow, well.. i originally sent this message NOT in looks for a response... cause i really felt like you didnt care like i did. And now u just proved it to me... nice to know when u say i love u its lie.

She then IM'd me and thats when she started saying stuff like.

"I do love you, just not as much as you love me. and it should be equal."

"I cant give you as much love as you give me"

"I dont deserve, all the love you give me and all the things you do for me"

"I like you and i love you, just not enough to be with you"

I pretty much said.. you may love me as a friend, but dont say you LOVE me.. cause its a ****ing lie.. if you really loved me, even a little you would not want to leave me cause of this.

She says she still cares and wants to be friends, but feels she needs to be alone for while.

This whole i dont deserve you is BS...and so Cliche..

Any girls wanna give there thoughts on this? I do believe that she cant give me the love that i give her, she just obviously doesnt feel for me as much as i do for her.

[Enigmos]

the comment of opening up her true feelings to a stranger on myspace is proof enough, isn't it? what if that stranger asked for more? started flirting? would she have flirted back? you won't know now, but you can wonder.

this hurts, dude. i'm so sorry for your pain. ((( hugs )))

and the whole "i don't deserve you" comment -- is that truly a cliche comment that both guys and gals say?