My ex bf and I broke nearly 2 years old. We are not in speaking term what so ever. But we do have mutual friends. Recently I got in touch with one of our mutual friend as we catch up. He told that one time he hung out with my ex and he brought my name up, my ex tried to ignore it. Then when he told my ex that just because we broke up doesn't mean we can't be friend. My ex gave my friend the weird look and just said "i don't know man. we'll see." I have no problem with my ex at all. I'm just curious to know why he acts like that especially in regard to me.
p.s
my ex has new girlfriend
My ex bf and I broke nearly 2 years old. We are not in speaking term what so ever. But we do have mutual friends. Recently I got in touch with one of our mutual friend as we catch up. He told that one time he hung out with my ex and he brought my name up, my ex tried to ignore it. Then when he told my ex that just because we broke up doesn't mean we can't be friend. My ex gave my friend the weird look and just said "i don't know man. we'll see." I have no problem with my ex at all. I'm just curious to know why he acts like that especially in regard to me.
p.s
he has a new girlfriend
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14-10-09, 08:57 PM #1
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14-10-09, 10:31 PM #2
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He may just not be in a place yet where he is comfortable talking about you or being friends with you. Even if you're not in love with an ex anymore, you still have a history together so of course talking about an ex could stir up feelings. People deal with break ups differently. Some like to be friends, some doesn't want to have any contact at all. That could just be his way of dealing with the break up. And who knows, even if you broke up 2 years ago you don't know his feelings. He could still be feeling something for you, or maybe still is dealing with the breakup and is trying to move on, and therefor doesn't want to be in touch with you as he has a new girlfriend and doesn't want to engage himself in a friendship with you yet.
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15-10-09, 12:54 AM #3
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Often times ex's can't be friends- they just can't all romantic feelings aside... it just can't be.
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15-10-09, 04:49 AM #4
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It's been 2 years, everyone's moved on. The only ex's I've stayed friends with are those that we can help each other professionally if we need to on rare occasions, but we don't "stay in touch" so to speak, so I even use the term friends very loosely.
He wasn't being mean about, I just doubt he has feelings at all for you anymore. That's normal.
