I feel SO great that i discovered this technique! It is the best thing in the world. Remember that I'm a 14 year old teenage smartass with hormones raging like ****ing tigers in a cage, so it HAS to work for you "older" people GOD I'm so grateful I figured it out.
I had a conversation with my dad.. and I asked him:
"hey dad.. on average--the AVERAGE guy eating out the AVERAGE girl, how long would it take her to orgasm?"
and he said:
"Oh my.. Well, there are many many variables. Some girls could NEVER orgasm to that, no matter how good you are"
I replied:
"Really? Why??"
He said:
"Because the largest sex organ you have is your brain. If the girl isn't really into it, then she will not orgasm."
I replied:
"OOOOO!!! So THAT'S how porn models do it right? They fake for the camera so they never really orgasm because they aren't completely INTO it."
He agreed, and I realized something: everytime I'm with my girlfriend and we're making out on my bed, I'm really really enjoying it, and all of a sudden I start to get hard and I'm like "oh god damnit.."
But, I tried this not long ago. We were goin' at it and THIS is EXACTLY what was going through my mind/brain/peanut/whatever you call it:
"This is an object that tries to give you pleasure..
..It is a game.. Don't abide..
You have RULES and VALUES! DONT! Give as much back as you can without getting trapped....
Fool!"
Most of you guys would think "wow--that's miserable! Wouldn't that reduce your performance and warmth to her anyways?"
The answer is no, it's all in your mind, but if you leave a spot that says "do 150% performance to this OBJECT, but don't let it win the game" you'll do fine.
try it and tell me how it goes.