So I'm married, as of September 22 of 09 and I'm very happy. He's honestly an absolute dream and I love him to bits. But I do have thoughts of other men, particularly two, one I'd had a couple times in the past and the other I've known for a couple of years non-romantically. I have actual dreams of these two in sexual situations frequently, one actually being yesterday. I'm wondering why I have such an angling for these two, particularly the one I've had previous relations. I get terribly jubilant when I see him and I ache for him badly, but I would never cheat on my husband. I'm wondering why I feel such desire for somebody else when I love my husband so much and I couldn't be any happier with my decision in a mate?