I've been dating someone for a month now (both in our 20's). Nothing serious or anything, but I think that we are both only seeing each other right now. We've had about 5-6 dates together. We always have a good time together, no matter what we are doing. The dates have always ended with a nice kiss and hug. We usually talk a few times a week and she seems interested.
I have always been the one to set something up, or the one who calls following a date. She has only once returned a phone call after I left a voicemail message. Sometimes I have called and left a message, and she sends an e-mail back instead.
I had tried to see her on the weekend but she was too busy and couldn't find the time. I called her over the weekend and she had kind of initiated the set up a quick date meet for us early in the week instead. This is the first sort of interest I have seen from her.
Should I be worried that after a month, she is never the one to call me or initiate a date? Is she just shy maybe? It would be really exciting for me if she just called, even to say "hi" if nothing else.
Is this a sign of disinterest or is she just shy and is still expecting the guy to do all the work?