Im just so confused and upset.
Its been more than 2 months since me and my ex girlfriend broke up.
and Im still just so sad about it, I think about her all the time, I stumble upon her myspace, and her status is always 'so happy' , 'stoked on life' , always something good.
I guess I just dont understand how she can be so happy, and im still so miserable :/
I know everyone says you need to meet someone new, and you will get over it, Im just not interested in anyone else, and I miss everything about my ex girlfriend.
We dont talk, and im pretty sure she wishes I fall off the face of the earth. I dont know how I can still love someone so much that hurt me so bad.
You would think I would hate her, and want to move on, but its the opposite. I keep wishing so much that she will come back to me again, but I know it probaly wont happen.
I recently had to move back home to a small town, and I hate it here. I dont really do anything but work, so I have a lot of time to think and just be depressed.
Everyone on here always says to keep yourself busy, go out and do stuff, but how can you do that when you feel so depressed, Ive tried to go out and do stuff and it doesnt help. It seems like nothing helps.
The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about moving back to the city, where I lived for 6 years, and where my ex girlfriend is.
I know when I get back, and I cant try to contact her, and I have to just find a new life without her.
But my question is, do you think ill just be a sad wreck the whole 2-3 months that im here? before I move back to the city?
all my friends, and my life pretty much is there.
Is this time alone, and close to my parents good for me? or should I go back sooner, and get back to living and going out? or is idle time without alot of social good?
sorry alot of questions in one.
also, I dont drink anymore, and havent for a month.