Shy Irish guy needs some girly help

[Claymoresword]

Hello Girls I`m having a bit of a problem here im basically an Irish guy 5 foot 10 skinny/muscly emerald green eyes and generally very shy and i`m very confused

Heres my story
I go to a small school in a small Irish city and over the school holidays a girl from my class added me on Bebo ( If you don`t know its like Myspace) anyway on bebo you have the choice to pick your top friends and i`m the only lad in her top friend list . We talked alot over the holidays she left me huge messages filled with smilie faces and !!!!!`s and telling me loads of secrets basically telling me everything about herself things she doesnt tell any other lads or her friends I would imagine . She was complementing me and i was flattering her with complements

Things seemed great then the first day back to school I was walking in the front door she was passing by with her friends I said hi to her and she completely ignored me . In the next class the same thing I could have dropped dead and she couldnt have cared less . i jusy sat there thinking this is the same girl isnt ? .

After that I went down to the locker room and I was alone she walked in and came over too me and started talking I started staring into her eyes and she kept looking away from me and giggling and blushing . we had a great time . then her friends came in and she went over stood with them as if she had never been talking to me ? ( It made me feel terrible )

Then when I went home i had a huge message on my page from her telling me all her personal secrets and lots of jokes and asing me questions about my life ??

The next day in school the same thing completely ignored me . Until I got home and another huge message on my page .

So I started approaching her in school and she did the whole stare into my eyes and blush thing ............... Until her friends enter the room and then she just ignores anything I say to her .



Is she really shy ? Does she like me like I like her ? Does she think i`m just some friend or is she just using me ?

[FullofSighs]

Sounds like she just doesn't want her friends to know that she likes you. It happens a lot. Try confronting her about it, don't be blunt though, just casually bring it up and ask her why she does that. I think what i said is the reason why, and if it is then she will give you more detail about it

[Claymoresword]

Thanks for the help I also notice she has no other problem with lads in the class she always just seems to clam up and act different when she knows i enter the room

[elle]

ARE you sure it was her? on bebo? Maybe smbody else was just using her account or smth, cuz otherwise she'd at least say hello, i mean it's weird..

[sunnyangel]

I agree with FullogSighs that she don't want her friends to know she likes you.... Ask her straight why she does like that.... I think you will hear explanation and everything will be clear for you. Good luck!

[elle]

I agree with FullogSighs that she don't want her friends to know she likes you....

crzy, if bebo's the same as facebook, then all the messages anybody sends to anyone can be viewd both on a person's home page, and personal profile, and if she's so poular i'm sure many guys follow those links! And if, as your saying your the only one on her top friend list... it doesn't make sence all her friends will know from that, there's no better way of SHARING info than social networking sites!! Somebody hacked her account, for sure, and all those giggling is you reading too much into everything she does, it happens. And the only way to kno for sure (not that there's any doubt) is to ask like is it her who sends those messages, and i'm sure she has no idea bout them!!

[Claymoresword]

I know its her sending the messages Because only she can have that sense of humour thats obvious in the messages lol . And she in general life is VERY shy . The only messages she ever gets on her page are from me and her sister Thats why I cant get anything out of her im so confused being shy myself . I dont know if she just likes to talk to me or wants something more and I`m afraid to ask her incase she clams up alltogether